Gift giving should ideally be a fun experience for all, but instead, it can sometimes turn into a walk through the proverbial minefield. Making the wrong decision could end up sending an unintended message that can be hurtful, although a gym membership seems like a great idea, send it to someone who is a little over weight and it is not always going to get a fantastic response.

We have put together a few gift giving tips that you may find helpful to find the right gift for that special someone.

For the Ladies

Women love gifts, so finding the right gift for a woman should be a breeze, right ... ? But in this day and age options are endless, so to some, it is easier just to take the safe route and buy the usual, gifts, flowers, jewelry, perfume etc. But if you would like to show her that she is worth going the extra mile, take heed of the following tips to guide you in your search for that perfect gift to bring a smile to her face and warmth to her heart.

• The first tip is the most important. Never believe her when she says “Please, don't get me anything”.
  That is never true!!
• Keep your ears open. Woman have an uncanny knack of dropping hints and she will expect that you have picked up on that.
• On your next visit, pay attention to the decor she surrounds herself with, and where she spends most of her time. This is always a sure fire way of knowing what she is about.
• It is absolutely not okay to buy her a gift with your taste and needs in mind, the offer to share the gift with her will most likely not give you a favourable response.
• A wearable gift for a lady is always problematic. Getting the right size, or colours to match her complexion is quite difficult. Therefore accessories like scarves, belts or hats are a safer option.

For the Men

Although men appear to be nonplussed when it comes to receiving a gift, don't be mistaken, it is all a facade. A thoughtful gift will always bring joy and happiness to the male of the species, although only a rare occasion, will it be visible to the eye.

• Call his friends and ask them if he has mentioned something he would like.
• Is he sentimental ... ? if so it is best not get him a brand new wallet for instance, because he is more than likely to keep on using the old ratty one he has been using since he had side burns.
• Men are more practical by nature. Even though it may not be the most romantic of gifts, if you know that he will like it and can use it then that is the gift you should buy him.

For the Teenager

Buying for a teenager is quite a daunting task,so ducking for cover and heading to the shops for a CD or DVD seems so much more easier. But giving thought to a present for this particular age group, shows them that you listen, appreciate and accept them for who they are, which, at this delicate time is absolutely essential.

• Never classify a teenager into a set group, all teenagers aren’t the same, and generalising will not work in your favour. Look for a unique gift, because if a teenager is something, it is unique.
• It is important for you to know your teenager and understand them as individuals.
  The perfect choice will nourish their blossoming personality and will breed a feeling of acceptance.
• Either ask them personally (or their parents) what they are into. Are they sporty, a reader, a computer whiz or a princess ... ? Do they like outdoors or are they more comfortable inside ... ?
• If all else fails, take up the option of a Gift Garden Gift Certificate so they can browse through our site and find a unique item that suits them best.
• If you know that the teenager will be moving out of home within the next year or so, it may be wise to consider something to add to their Glory Box or Hope Chest, because they surely will not have surplus cash, once they move out of home.

For the Tween ( 7-12 )

Life with this age group of big kids / little teens is hardly consistent. Their needs and wants change as quickly as the clock turns the hour, and their emotional state reflects this. So choosing the right gift that is a good balance between their adultness and the inner-fun-loving-child is no mean feat to accomplish.

• Although children of this age sometimes refuse to believe that they are still children, receiving a fun gift WILL always be better appreciated than one that is directed towards the more mature self.
• If they have a creative streak, whether it be painting, writing, working with wood, or wherever their interest leads them, acknowledge this in the present that you choose. Their confidence will soar when they know that you believe in their talent, no matter how under-developed it is.
• Show the tween that you acknowledge their developing individuality by listening and understanding what they like. Whether it be particular colours or hobbies. Their “loves’ might change but the fact that you have listened to them will prove that you believe in their individuality and that they are special for being who they are.
• Along with the gift, attach a personalised note. Include a few lines on how much you have enjoyed watching their development and how blessed you are to have them in your life.

For the Children ( Under 6 )

If you do not have children of your own or you are a grand parent, it may be difficult for you to know what to buy a child. That said, the first point of call when looking for a gift should be Mum or Dad who will surely know what is most appropriate.

• Don’t re-live your childhood by choosing a gift that you would have loved to receive when you were their age.
• Be sure to choose a gift that is age specific. The developmental needs of a 2 year old is certainly different to that of a 5 year old and the present should reflect this.
• If there is a younger child in the home it is not the best idea to buy a gift that has little parts.
• If they love to create, draw or paint, it is essential that the medium you buy is child friendly and will not inadvertently place the little Picasso in danger. It is also best if they are water soluble for easy cleaning.
• Always give the present to the child in full view of Mum for a number of various reasons.